Salam readers.First and foremost, I must apologize for I will discuss yet again about the matters of life. It is a kind of an inevitable thing for me. I can not describe how much I think about these things everyday. Things that relate to human. Today, my question would be, tears; is it a sign of weakness or it is a sign of strength?
Let me begin by making an assumption - although I'm certain this is true - that every single human in this world have cried. Be it that it was 20 years ago, 15 years ago, 2 years ago, a month ago, 15 minutes ago, or maybe even right now. There are lots of reasons behind those tears. Sadness, happiness, or maybe something in between.
Or it could be because of the littlest thing, or other people or maybe just you. And sometimes, you cry just because.
So what is crying to you? If it's a sign of weakness then why do we feel better after we cry? And if it's a sign of strength, then why do we feel embarrassed to just cry? Why are we given this ability in the first place?
Why do some boys/man think that crying is not a cool thing to do? Does crying makes you look weak and makes you look like a girl? So, girls/women are weak? Perhaps...
Everyone is capable of crying. Even a heartless man will have that spot in his heart somewhere. But are they capable of showing it?
To me, tears can tell you a lot about a person. It shows purity, innocence, love, sympathy, loyalty, and many of the good things. That is who you are. So just cry. Because one day, you will tell yourself I wish I had cry...but it will be too late.
It's not a weakness, it's not strength either. It's just being human...
P/s: dedicated to my dear friends, Atie and Ima.
